A typical first-time purchase takes about 3 to 6 months from the moment you decide to buy to the day you get the keys, and the contract-to-closing stretch is usually 30 to 45 days. The timeline splits into seven phases, each with predictable durations and costs, and almost every delay I see comes from a buyer skipping a step, not from the process itself being slow. This guide lays out each phase with realistic numbers, a full cost breakdown on a $300,000 home, and the mistakes that quietly add weeks to your calendar.
If you want the deep-dive version of the entire process, my Complete First-Time Home Buyer's Roadmap covers every document and deadline, and the free Homebuyer Roadmap download gives you a printable version.
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Here is the honest schedule I give every first-time buyer. Your mileage varies with the market, but these ranges hold up in San Antonio and the Hill Country.
Phase 1: Preparation, 3 to 6 months before you want to close. Check your credit reports at AnnualCreditReport.com, dispute errors, pay down credit card balances toward 30% utilization or lower, and start separating your down payment and closing cost savings so the money can be documented. This is the phase where most first-time buyers actually lose their timeline, because credit repairs take weeks to report.
Phase 2: Pre-approval, 1 to 3 business days. A real pre-approval means a lender has pulled your credit, reviewed your income and assets, and told you what you qualify for. It takes a matter of days once you provide your pay stubs, W-2s (or two years of tax returns if you are self-employed), bank statements, and ID. The first step to buying a home answer explains what to bring. Pre-approval is not the same as getting a quote online: how much house you can afford is the number that counts.
Phase 3: House hunting, 4 to 10 weeks. Most of my buyers tour 10 to 25 homes and make 1 to 3 offers before one sticks. Plan your weekends around neighborhoods, school districts, and commutes, and ask for a comparative market analysis on anything you seriously consider so you know what the comps say before you fall in love with a price.
Phase 4: Offer and negotiation, 1 to 5 days. Once you decide, your agent writes the offer: price, earnest money, option period, and contingencies. Expect a counteroffer within a day or two in a normal market. This is the phase where my loan officer hat earns its keep, because I already know the financing will support the offer we are writing.
Phase 5: Option period, 7 to 10 days. In Texas this is your window for inspections and due diligence. You pay an option fee, typically $100 to $500, to hold the right to terminate for any reason during the period. Book the general inspection (about $350 to $600) immediately, add the termite letter, and consider a sewer scope on older homes.
Phase 6: Appraisal and underwriting, 2 to 4 weeks. The lender orders the appraisal, usually $500 to $800 paid at or before closing, and your loan file goes through underwriting: verifying income, assets, employment, and insurance. Answer every document request the same day it arrives; a stalled file adds days.
Phase 7: Closing, day 30 to 45 from contract. Three business days before closing you receive the Closing Disclosure, the final statement of every cost. Review it line by line, do the final walkthrough, and bring identification and your certified or wired funds. That is the day the keys change hands. The final walkthrough checklist is worth printing.
What It Costs: A $300,000 Home Example
Buyers ask me for the real numbers, so here is the range on a typical $300,000 purchase in this market:
| Item | Typical Amount | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Down payment | $10,500 (3.5% FHA) or $60,000 (20% conventional) | Credited from your earnest money |
| Earnest money | $3,000 to $6,000 (1% to 2%) | Held in escrow, credited at closing |
| Option fee | $100 to $500 | Non-refundable, paid to the seller |
| Home inspection | $350 to $600 | Plus $100 to $150 for a sewer scope if recommended |
| Appraisal | $500 to $800 | Arranged through your lender |
| Closing costs | $6,000 to $12,000 (2% to 4%) | Lender fees, title, escrow, prepaids for taxes and insurance |
Add it up and a realistic cash-to-close on the FHA side is about $17,000 to $23,000 including the earnest money credit, and sellers can cover part of the closing costs with concessions. Down payment assistance can shrink the down payment toward zero for qualified buyers; my Texas down payment assistance guide shows how that stacks. The closing costs answer breaks down where every dollar goes.
The Mistakes That Add Weeks (or Kill the Deal)
Inside the Process
- Buying furniture, a car, or new card before closing: big purchases change your DTI and your credit, and underwriting re-checks both.
- Moving savings between accounts without keeping statements. Lenders need a paper trail for any money arriving at closing.
- Ignoring the three-day Closing Disclosure rule. If a cost jumps, ask why before closing day, not after.
Before the Offer
- Touring homes without a pre-approval, then losing weeks when the numbers do not work.
- Waiving the inspection "to look competitive," then absorbing four-figure repairs with no leverage.
- Falling for a home before checking the HOA rules, flood history, and school boundaries. Those are the three deal-breakers buyers discover too late.
My 10 mistakes first-time buyers make and the biggest mistakes roundup cover the full list, including the ones that cost money rather than just time.
The Bottom Line
Plan for 3 to 6 months, budget for the cash above, and protect your file between pre-approval and closing like it is the most important lot in town, because it is. The process is not mystery, it is a checklist with dates. My job is to walk you through every item on it so the day you get the keys feels inevitable instead of lucky. If you want the free downloadable version of that checklist, grab the Homebuyer Roadmap.
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Patrick Kevin Fagan
Loan Officer and Realtor | AXEN Realty LLC | San Antonio and Texas Hill Country
Licensed Sales Agent | 454749 | TX | NMLS 877741
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